Week 4
The friends hatch a plan. Heather takes control.
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The Girls
Heather, Jo, Pip, Lisa
Monday
Early evening
Lisa
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Jo
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Lisa
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Pip
Think Jo’s right L. Mince and potatoes isn’t the answer
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Lisa
How do you know? It might be exactly what she needs!
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Pip
Hun, listen to what she said yesterday
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Pip
‘I just need to shut myself off for a bit’
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Pip
You popping over with a cottage pie you’ve whipped up is hardly that is it?
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Lisa
Well forgive me for wanting to help our friend
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Pip
Leece, I’m sorry but you need to listen.
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Pip
One sec
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Pip
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5 minutes later
Jo
L what’s going on?
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Pip
You haven’t gone over there have you?
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Pip
Lisa?
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Tuesday
Morning
Lisa
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Pip
God you had me worried there
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Lisa
Sorry
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Lisa
I’m a bit all over the place
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Jo
It’s ok. It’s really hard to know what to do for the best.
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Lisa
Can we meet up for coffee or something?
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Pip
Coffee sounds good
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Jo
Would love that
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Jo
Does Filter at 6pm work?
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Lisa
I’ll make it work
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Lisa
I’ve been stuck at school too many evenings these last few weeks so I’m owed an earlier finish!
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Pip
6 works for me
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Jo
Perfect xx
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Lisa
Thank you. Xxx
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Pip
Xx
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Jo
X
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Early evening
Lisa
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Jo
Don’t rush, see you soon
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Pip
Ordered you a latte L
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2 hours later
Lisa
Needed that
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Lisa
Thanks girls x
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Pip
😘
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Jo
Me too xx
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Jo
Someone should have stopped me from eating that second brownie though
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Jo
It’s Mike’s turn to cook
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Jo
He’s made my favourite and I’m not sure I can face it 🤢
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Pip
😆 Poor Mike
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Lisa
Love you both xx
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Wednesday
Late Morning
Pip
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Afternoon
Jo
Just listened to your voice note
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Jo
What a lady!
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Jo
Think that’s a great idea
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Lisa
Would love to do something like that
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Lisa
We could do it for Breast Cancer Now
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Lisa
They’ve given Heather so much support and I saw on their website they do all this incredible research too
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Pip
Definitely
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Pip
Think that’d be great
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Pip
Part of me wants to do it as a surprise for H
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Jo
Think she’d actually really love that
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Lisa
What could we do?
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Pip
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Jo
Sorry, just to be 100% clear, are you suggesting we all shave our heads?????
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Pip
Yep!
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Jo
Bloody hell Pip
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Jo
That is bold
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Pip
Jo
That is bold
Don’t you mean...bald?
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Lisa
I love the idea in principle, no idea how I’d feel about actually doing something like that
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Lisa
Or how John would feel for that matter!
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Pip
I know, it’s a big thing
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Pip
Obviously let’s not get ahead of ourselves
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Pip
But Heather’s going through something really life changing
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Pip
And if she does have to have chemo...
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Pip
I don’t know
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Pip
Could be really empowering
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Pip
Anyway, just wanted to put it out there ❤
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Pip
Who knows what’ll happen
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Thursday
Evening
Jo
Just been on the phone to Heather
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Jo
I’m adding her back in
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Lisa
Is she ok?
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Jo
Why don’t you ask her?
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Jo added Heather
Lisa
HEATHER!
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Heather
Hello...
Lisa
Been so worried about you
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Pip
Hasn’t been the same without you
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Pip
Was pretty uneventful on here
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Pip
Although...
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Pip
L was going to bring you a cottage pie...
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Lisa
It’s true
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Lisa
Didn’t know what to do
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Heather
Love your cottage pie
Lisa
SEE!
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Pip
😆
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Heather
Not sure it would have been the answer on this occasion though
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Heather
Sorry I left so abruptly
Pip
Don’t apologise
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Pip
You do what you need to do
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Heather
Shall we talk about the elephant in the room?
Lisa
I didn’t want to ask
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Heather
One sec
Lisa
Ok
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5 minutes later
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Heather
Jo
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Heather
Jo
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Lisa
Don’t worry lovely, we thought we’d better play it safe so we organised plan B a while ago.
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Heather
Thank you. A walk sounds good 😘
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Heather
Really want to see you all
Pip
Walk and a pub lunch? Could go to the Haycutter
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Heather
It’s a date
Lisa
Love that idea
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Lisa
It’s supposed to be good weather too
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Pip
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Lisa
In the meantime, is there ANYTHING we can do? Cleaning? Babysitting? What’s going to help?
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Pip
Cottage pies…?!
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Lisa
😆 🥧 🥧 🥧
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Heather
I don’t need anything but I promise I’ll tell you if I do
Lisa
Ok 👍
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Heather
X
Friday
Early afternoon
Jo
Warning, rant incoming
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Jo
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Heather
Ok babe take yourself out of the house for a minute
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Heather
Go for a walk around the block
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Heather
DON’T CALL MIKE
10 minutes later
Jo
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Pip
I’m just going to say this
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Pip
Don’t bite my head off
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Pip
Emma’s 16
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Pip
I can’t imagine her mum was a goody two shoes at that age...
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Jo
I really don’t need to hear that right now.
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Pip
They’re going to mess about
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Jo
I feel completely betrayed
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Pip
The joys of bringing up teenage girls
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Jo
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Pip
Ok babe
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Heather
2 hours later
Jo
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Jo
Pip I’m sorry I called you a hippy
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Jo
Wish I could be as relaxed as you
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Pip
😂 That's alright I wish I was a hippy! Can just see myself in one of those camper vans with flowers in my hair
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Heather
Have you told Mike?
Jo
He isn’t back yet
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Jo
It’ll be fine, it’s sorted
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Jo
He’ll be glad it wasn’t him
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Jo
He’s much more laidback than me but this would have made him feel very awkward!
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Heather
Can imagine
Evening
Lisa
I don’t envy you Jo!
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Jo
🤪 We’ve ordered a takeaway
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Jo
This afternoon wiped me out!
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Lisa
I bet!
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Lisa
What time are we meeting tomorrow?
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Heather
10.30 in the pub car park?
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Heather
We can do a walk and then lunch is booked for 1pm
Jo
Fab, see you then x
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Lisa
See you then xx
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Lisa
👍 😘
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Saturday
Morning
Lisa
Sorry, running 10 mins late!
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Heather
Don’t worry. I suppose we can wait for you 😉
Sunday
Morning
Pip
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Pip
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Pip
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Pip
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Pip
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Lisa
Aww they’re lovely
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Lisa
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Lisa
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Lisa
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Heather
We need to do that more often
Jo
We do
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Late afternoon
Pip
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Pip
Help!
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Jo
Pip
😂 How?!
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Heather
How many jumpers is that now?
Pip
It’s the 5th one...
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Jo
Oh well maybe it’ll give Lucy a kick up the bum to start doing her own washing
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Pip
You’d think!
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Evening
Lisa
Promise you’ll let us know how your surgery goes tomorrow H?
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Heather
Promise
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Heather
Having a very chilled evening
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Heather
That walk yesterday did me so much good
Jo
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Jo
xx
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Pip
Jo
Love this
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Heather
Me too
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Heather
X